知足

世界上没有一种事物是完美的
人要懂得知足
珍惜目前所拥有
不祈求着不可能

只有这样人才会幸福

今天偶尔在杂志上看到了这一段关于知足的文章。心里面却有了另一种想法。人如果只是满足于目前的状况而忽视了更好的未来,到头来只是原地踏步。其实并不是完全的否定人要知足的想法,只是知足这个词在不同的场合有着不同的定义。在婚姻上,既然已选择了他/她就必须学会接受关于他/她的一切优点与缺点。懂得珍惜伴侣,不祈求着不可能的改变,这是知足。如果一天到晚只会吵吵闹闹的,拿伴侣来比较,要求伴侣为了自己而改变。往好的方面想的话,可能他/她为了你而改变,改变后的两个人依然可以幸福的生活。坏的方面,可能改变后只有单方觉得快乐,而另一方却只能忍受着委屈。长久下去,幸福又谈何容易呢?

在职场上知足可能是一个致命的弱点,认为公司已经对你不错了,目前所拥有的足够让你活得幸福自在。这种想法可能就会让你失去了争取更好的事业的机会。想象着不祈求着往高处爬,安于目前的位置,在事业上永远都没有出头天。有时候可能就是需要一些野心,人才会有原动力往更高的目标前进。祈求着不可能不是一件坏事,至少你会努力的向前。到后来可能没有实现到梦想,但至少你有所改变以及成长。

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Wilson said…
walao ... this guy really furious here .. hehehe ..
ambition is juz an driving force for keep moving on ... dun really like to screw up the rest just for your own good ... there must be a better way of achieving it although it may be a bit slow ..
Anonymous said…
you can be contented and ambitious at the same time. but then again, you must have clear understanding of the purpose of your ambition. Otherwise, in the end after all the bloodshed, you may be fighting for nothing.

you can also hinder yourself from screwing others and still overcome the obstacle through wisdom:)but i understand this is easier said than done la...

Just my 2 cents (talk cock), haha
Gnu said…
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Wilson said…
凡事太尽,缘分势必早尽

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